Friday, August 29, 2014

School and Missing our Jason

My boys started school on Monday.  I will admit. I wasn't quite ready.  Of course there were days this summer that I craved routine and structure.  But I never missed doing homework, packing lunches, or spending an hour each day going through 2 school pick-up lines to get my kids.


Cooper- first day of 3rd grade.



Hudson- first day of 6th grade.

Cooper has a male teacher this year.....which is rare.  He really likes him so far.

It's been really quiet  around here this week.  I'm sort of looking forward to going back to preschool in the next couple of weeks.  Gives me something to do and lets me socialize with some friends.  

Hard to believe that this is the third school year we have started without Jason.  I wish I could say that it was easier or that the void seemed less noticeable but I can't.  He is missed in such huge ways still.

Last night, Cooper and I were looking through pictures for his class assignment.  He was told to bring pictures of his family and favorite things and they would be putting them together on a poster.  Obviously, Cooper wanted to include Jason......which I love.  But as I scrolled through pictures looking for the perfect one it became so clear that time is moving on.  We are growing and changing and he isn't.  The pictures of Jason and Cooper together are a treasure....but Coop looks so small and it hurts that we have none that are current.  It was impossible for me to look through them without crying.  This all still seems so unfair.  Why did they have to lose such a great dad?

Cooper is also starting to mature in his grief and he realizes that he got the shaft.  He has made several comments to me about Hudson getting Jason for 8 years while he only had him for 5.  He's envious that I had him for over 12 years....he gets really emotional when he talks about this.  Even at 8 years old now, he can comprehend that 5 years just wasn't enough.

Today I am sad.  Nothing specific.  Nothing new.  Just one of those days where it's harder to tuck the emotions inside and pretend it's all okay.  Allowing myself to feel it and work through it.  Tomorrow is a new day......

Wednesday, August 20, 2014

Immune Boost Roll-on + Giveaway

My boys start back to school next Monday, August 25.  While we've had our fair share of germ exposure this summer (trampoline parks, water parks, etc.....) there is something about the start of school that seems to suppress the immune system for kids.  It's probably the anxiety and fear of a new year starting.  Add the stress of homework and all the after school activities they are involved in.  Mix that together and we start to see kids that are worn out and run down and sickness starts to set in.

I made this Immune Boost roll-on for my boys and have started applying it to the bottom of their feet at night before bed.  I'm wanting to get a jump start on strengthening their immune systems so that we can avoid sickness.  All of these oils are known to stimulate the immune system.



For the rest of August.....anyone that purchases a Premium Starter Kit through me will get an Immune Boost roll-on FREE.  As always, I send you the Reference Guide book ($16 value) and add you to my private Facebook group page where we educate you on how to use these amazing oils.



Click here to get started.  I'll mail you the book and FREE Immune Boost roll-on as soon as the order is completed.  Offer expires August 31, 2014 at midnight.

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Monday, August 18, 2014

Weekly Menu

I love when I have my act together and actually plan a menu for the week.  Goes SO much smoother when I do it.

Monday
Homemade Mashed Potatoes
Fresh Fruit

Tuesday
Fresh green beans

Wednesday
Steamed Veggies
Wild Rice

Thursday
Breakfast for dinner.....scrambled eggs, bacon, fresh fruit

Friday
Turkey and Cheese Sliders
Homemade Baked Beans
Sun Chips and pickle spears
Fresh fruit

Saturday, August 16, 2014

Turks & Caicos Final Post

One of my boys favorite parts of the trip.....

.....was ordering from the swim-up bar.  They thought this was SOOOO cool and got pretty good as swimming up and asking for a Pina Colada.

Pina Coladas all around.....only 2 with rum though :)



I can't describe how much I love being able to see my feet while in the ocean.  I love knowing what is under me and watching the fish swim in and out of my legs.




Love this place.

Enjoying hibachi style dinner.

Cooper getting a chance to cook.

Yum!





Walking to breakfast.  Love the greenery and flowers all around us.

Playing in the gift shop.


A swim up bar for kids only.  Seriously, this place spoils families!



The boys loved this cave that you could swim in to.

Shawn wanted sushi one night....so we exposed the boys for the first time while on vacation.

This was their opinion.  Not fans.  And I can't say I blame them....

So blessed to have taken this amazing trip with my little family.  It was so awesome to unplug and get away for a bit.

Turks & Caicos Part 2

Enjoying the water park at the resort.



These slides never get old!



We all enjoyed the lazy river.

So many different pools......we didn't even hit them all.





Brothers!


Love my boys.

Saw this guy on our walk home from dinner

Enjoying dessert.  Every. Single. Night (and I wonder why my pants are even tighter?)

Sweet boy and I slipped away for a couples massage.  It was awesome!

Trying the surf simulator.  It was even harder than it looked.




We saw lots of lizards there.

More beach fun.....

About to get some sun....

Such a great trip.  My biggest decisions were: beach or pool?  Frozen or on the rocks?

Dinner with my family.

A few nights we came home to some funny characters on our bed :)

After a long day of playing......these boys were excited to take a shower and relax in bed with their games.


More snails!

Never got tired of this view.....